la Huerta
25th January 2011, 12:25 AM
hey guys...
not sure what can be done about emotional domestic violence. (no physical voilence thank god)
my mum has been getting emotionally abused by her partner for the past 10+ years. (she is now 57 and he is 68)
it used to be real bad when i was young, and there were a lot a arguments.
last few yrs not so bad, but still lingering.
just a few months ago mum had a bit of a spell, i thought it was a turn, she did not know where she was (what a horrible day)...next day she was better and a few days after that she went to the doctors, doc said she was fine, just her b/pressure was up and she was sooooo stressed. (stress i know was caused mainly by her partner)
so bottom line, he made her sick, not a very nice guy hey :(
when mum got sick he was so nice and helpful and caring, now she is better he is back to himself.
tonight mum said one little thing (more like advice or suggestion on something only because she is so caring) he did not approve of this, so instead of just putting it aside like any "normal" person would, he left the dinner table like a 5 yr old and did not speak to mum for 3 hours.
mum was so upset later that night, she was crying, and off he went again, being abusing , calling her names, he did not care at all that he made her upset, could not give a rats a$$.
...it was about this time i had enough, i'm a little older and tougher these days (having a lot of my own stress to deal with for about 6yrs), so i went off big time, i called him every rotton, stinking name i could think off, i told him exactly what he is (including a little girl, and he has no balls that's why he picks on my mum) and i made sure everyone in the neighborhood heard what i had to say about him and they way he treats woman.
damn i feel good :)
i'm so sick of copping sh*t from people, and worse seeing other people cop it, so tonight i took a stand.
and the moron actually stood up like he was going to fight me, crikey last thing i want is that sort of violence, that would be just stupid and would only end badly. (it was like an episone of kitchen nightmares when Gorgon tells the lazy chef what i really thinks of him!)
anyways i think that is enough sharing for now, just felt like i needed to get it all out of my head so i can sleep tonight.
question i have though, if this continues, like if he still emotionally abuses my mum when i'm not around to defend her, what should i do?
should i file a complaint, report to police or something? it is very seroius, and i looked up emotional abuse on google and all the symptoms of it are present.
thanks for listening
La H
:2tsup:
not sure what can be done about emotional domestic violence. (no physical voilence thank god)
my mum has been getting emotionally abused by her partner for the past 10+ years. (she is now 57 and he is 68)
it used to be real bad when i was young, and there were a lot a arguments.
last few yrs not so bad, but still lingering.
just a few months ago mum had a bit of a spell, i thought it was a turn, she did not know where she was (what a horrible day)...next day she was better and a few days after that she went to the doctors, doc said she was fine, just her b/pressure was up and she was sooooo stressed. (stress i know was caused mainly by her partner)
so bottom line, he made her sick, not a very nice guy hey :(
when mum got sick he was so nice and helpful and caring, now she is better he is back to himself.
tonight mum said one little thing (more like advice or suggestion on something only because she is so caring) he did not approve of this, so instead of just putting it aside like any "normal" person would, he left the dinner table like a 5 yr old and did not speak to mum for 3 hours.
mum was so upset later that night, she was crying, and off he went again, being abusing , calling her names, he did not care at all that he made her upset, could not give a rats a$$.
...it was about this time i had enough, i'm a little older and tougher these days (having a lot of my own stress to deal with for about 6yrs), so i went off big time, i called him every rotton, stinking name i could think off, i told him exactly what he is (including a little girl, and he has no balls that's why he picks on my mum) and i made sure everyone in the neighborhood heard what i had to say about him and they way he treats woman.
damn i feel good :)
i'm so sick of copping sh*t from people, and worse seeing other people cop it, so tonight i took a stand.
and the moron actually stood up like he was going to fight me, crikey last thing i want is that sort of violence, that would be just stupid and would only end badly. (it was like an episone of kitchen nightmares when Gorgon tells the lazy chef what i really thinks of him!)
anyways i think that is enough sharing for now, just felt like i needed to get it all out of my head so i can sleep tonight.
question i have though, if this continues, like if he still emotionally abuses my mum when i'm not around to defend her, what should i do?
should i file a complaint, report to police or something? it is very seroius, and i looked up emotional abuse on google and all the symptoms of it are present.
thanks for listening
La H
:2tsup: